Ask her rhetorically if she would dump her religion for her true love. Things have worked out pretty well with us so far. Doctors want to be with their families and attend events but because of work they just can't. When he is doing these things, he gets really upset with me if I try to talk to him because he's busy. I would not have wanted to be dismissed as crazy and unworthy of attention when I was still a member, because it wouldn't have been true.
After a lot of thought during that relationship with a non-Mormon, I laid out exactly what struggles I was probably going to face: I was worried about my own faith. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb. I do feel frustrated sometimes when spends his limited free time to go out with the guys, but I realize that he needs this release every once in a while. But, as soon as the marriage happened, the Mormon spouse goes full on Orthodox and expects the non Mormon to comply. I do think this girl is a keeper, and I'm more than willing to tolerate, be patient and live with the crazy schedule. He's usually trying to catch up on sleep working on a presentation, patient notes, etc I know communication is key, but it's helpful to know that others are going through the same experience. I can pray for and with my youngest daughter and bless her thru prayer. Mormons think when you die, based on if you were a good person cough cough atheists you go to spirit "paradise" where they will teach you the gospel.
Best wishes in whatever you decide. Thanks for the help. And we are not bloody married yet. I stand by my original statement.
I love him so much, but it's torture spending so much time without him. And frankly, you feel like such a loser. She will try to convert you. And here's an excellent video on the importance of religious freedom. No sex before marriage. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. Make them feel special. Because service is important in the Mormon faith, she may be interested in doing something that will help others, like helping someone clean their yard. He was patient and supportive, promising to continue acting like a TBM for as long as I wanted our baby is 4, so that likely would have been at least 14 years. In my experience, life-long member, many Mormons have difficulty thinking outside the box, and putting forth effort to inclue and love.